Of Sadennings...Friday Night Was Ruined

"K-Roll-PorscheTamer" (k-roll390) 04/05/2014 at 00:04 • Filed to: Women

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So I was !!!error: Indecipherable SUB-paragraph formatting!!! to go to the weekly car meet up with this girl; and she basically ditched me for a party and why?? Because it was "raining" outside. There was no fucking rain outside! Sure it was cold outside but NOPE!

Apparently she planned on going to the party ahead of time. She had a meeting with the housing director at 6pm, told me she didn't know when it'd be over and said she would text me to let me know whats up; she never did, I ended up texting her at 9pm and calling her at 9:30 to find out she didn't want to come out anymore, and by then she was getting ready for that fucking party!

http://oppositelock.jalopnik.com/of-happenings-…

Why the fuck do I even bother anymore? This is probably the 5th rejection/ditch in less than 5 months! I HATE THIS! And it was a girl that liked cars! That's like trying to find a fucking unicorn! I can't even calm down right now, nothing is making me feel better either... What am I to do Oppo? Am I just a hopeless guy with no luck?

Right now I feel like "K-Roll-PorscheLoser" :(

Anyone wanna find me some pics of G-Model 911s? Maybe that'll calm me down...I just don't know. This was not a good night.

NoahthePorscheGuy > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 00:21

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gimmie a sec

Aya, Almost Has A Cosmo With Toyota Engine Owned by a BMW. > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 00:22

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Don't worry mate, i once rejected 5 times in less then 2 months. That's my personal record btw.

Seriously, my chance to date a girl is just 30% or so.

Anyway, she might be reject you yet. There's always a second chance. Have a 912.

*Fun Fact: The Japanese Police from Aichi Perfecture is actually has a 912 like that one. Strange, because i think 912 is not that fast...

NoahthePorscheGuy > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 00:22

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NoahthePorscheGuy > NoahthePorscheGuy 04/05/2014 at 00:24

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K-Roll-PorscheTamer > NoahthePorscheGuy 04/05/2014 at 00:30

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WOW! That's a lot of 911s! I wasn't expecting that much from one person. You truly are a Porsche-phile . :)

At least that's something to be happy about, knowing there's a fellow Porsche-phile(or fanatic) around to lend a hand.

Maybe this'll also hold me over until my Dad finally gives me the key to his...

Thanks!

NoahthePorscheGuy > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 00:32

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Anything to Help out a fellow Porsche/ST lover in need. Keeping trying, don't give up, maybe she just fucked up and will make it up to you!

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Aya, Almost Has A Cosmo With Toyota Engine Owned by a BMW. 04/05/2014 at 00:33

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That is an interesting fact! Do they still use it?? 912s aren't really that fast; compared to old Beetles they are, but not so much against modern vehicles; except maybe a smart car....

PS9 > Aya, Almost Has A Cosmo With Toyota Engine Owned by a BMW. 04/05/2014 at 00:33

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There are worse police car choices in the world. Hybrid. And they brought 40 of those fucking things...

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > NoahthePorscheGuy 04/05/2014 at 00:35

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I hadn't considered that. I'll have to wait until Monday to find out. What if she doesn't know? What if I somehow fucked up?

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > PS9 04/05/2014 at 00:40

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OH MY GOD. WHY??

PS9 > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 00:41

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Because fuck catching crims, we gotta save some money on gas!

Aya, Almost Has A Cosmo With Toyota Engine Owned by a BMW. > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 00:45

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Well, i think it's been replaced or goes into museum.

But the weird thing is i think those japanese cops prefer japanese cars, they had lot of japanese cars, from the absurd i-Miev al the way to the amazing Toyota MegaCruiser and Honda NSX.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Aya, Almost Has A Cosmo With Toyota Engine Owned by a BMW. 04/05/2014 at 00:47

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Oh my... Just get them all GTRs and 370zs!

Aya, Almost Has A Cosmo With Toyota Engine Owned by a BMW. > PS9 04/05/2014 at 00:49

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No, there is something even Worse.

Some Japanese and British police drove i-Mievs. Like this one from Kanagawa Prefecture:

Aya, Almost Has A Cosmo With Toyota Engine Owned by a BMW. > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 00:58

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They have those thing, R32, R33, R34, but haven't seen R35 yet.

My favourite is their unmarked cars:

That's one of the ultimate sleeper i've ever seen. It's a 2JZ-GTE powered toyota Crown. I onw similar car like that, only mine was the 2JZ-GE.

PS9 > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 01:02

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///HARD ADVICE INCOMING\\\

Rejection of a single date isn't supposed to hurt that much. It only can if you've put your whole hopes of happiness and escaping single-hood into one interaction with one person. Don't do that.

Get rejected, turned down, and flaked out more often. Like the skin on a miners hands, you need to be callused to it, accepting it as a daily part of life, because it is until you've found what you're looking for. Only then can you stop digging. If she left you now, you weren't ever going to be happy with her anyway. Happiness requires much, much, more than a single common interest.

Stop here if you want, but that means being alone forever. Only YOU can prevent that. They aren't going to walk up to you, so you have to go to them, as many times as it takes until you don't have to anymore.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > PS9 04/05/2014 at 01:10

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What am I suppose to do and how do I respond then?

(Unless you answered(said) that already disregard this)

PS9 > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 01:21

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About this one girl? Don't respond. She has no respect for your time/energy, so why waste anymore of it on her? An interested, fully engaged person would have gone to the event with you. She isn't. The reasons aren't important because the result will be the same. Move on.

About the next girl? Well, you (almost) got this one to go somewhere with you. The next one can't be that difficult, can it? If it doesn't work out, move on, try again. Lather, rinse, repeat, and make sure you have plenty of hand-soap because you might be at it for a while.

Manuél Ferrari > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 01:25

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Count your lucky stars. You can cut bait and run. I wish what happened to you was the worst thing a girl did to me this year. Trust me it can get much, much worse.

This girl isn't worth your time. Take it from me - if a girl isn't appreciating how much you like her then move on. Not worth it to try to make it work if she isn't trying too.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > PS9 04/05/2014 at 01:27

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That is some strong advice there...how long is a while?

PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 01:28

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Get in your ST, find a fun road, and channel your rage in to driving spiritedly!
I'm sorry this happened to you :(
As someone whose girlfriend left him with these exact words: "I don't wanna drag a guy in to my shit" and then proceeded to start dating another guy (whose a douche who is just using her) 3 days later. I feel your pain D:
I dealt with it by talking/grinding/making out (too much info?) With a girl from another high school at the State Thespian conference. So, either get in your car and drive the wheels off it, or go to a party yourself, be bold, be brash, hit on a girl, and you miht get lucky! :)

offroadkarter > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 01:30

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Sorry dude, sucks

Look on the bright side, no woman just means nothing to suck the money out of your wallet. Thats how I see it anyways.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Manuél Ferrari 04/05/2014 at 01:30

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So I guess the search continues then...

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power 04/05/2014 at 01:33

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I guess I wasn't kidding myself when I told myself I might need to change my entire character when I get to college. Because that's the exact opposite of me.

Also I don't think I'm fit to drive my ST in my current state either.

But any advice helps calm the mind.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > offroadkarter 04/05/2014 at 01:35

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the 93 octane is what's sucking the money outa my wallet now. :p

PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 01:40

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maybe saying this will be bad but ummmm.... I'm 15...
And can I just say, what I did after my girlfriend broke up with me is the most "un me" like I think I've ever been. I tend to be outgoing, but not so far as to be the "Hey, you wanna randomly make out, even though I met you this morning?" guy.

Even though I have little (read: no) life experience yet, I have learned that always being yourself might not yield positive results. I'm not encouraging becoming a douche to get ladies. what I'm trying to say is that being a bit more outgoing, and a bit more spontaneous helps!

Note: feel free to laugh as much as you want at my age, and the fact I'm giving dating advice to someone who is at least 3 years my senior. Also, everything I'm saying is in an attempt to cheer you up a bit! :D

Manuél Ferrari > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 01:41

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Don't let it get you down!

Much better to start a new search than to keep investing in a lost cause.

It's natural to think of how much time you've invested into something and have trouble letting it go. I did that for almost 3 years. Now that it's over I wish I had pulled the plug at the first sign of trouble 2 months into the relationship. I would have been so much better off just pulling the plug than trying to make her feel the same way as I felt about her.

PS9 > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 01:43

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As long as it takes. Some people get to find love in high school others end up in the nursing home still single. Life's not a romantic comedy where the right person shows up at the right time, and you aren't going to get there if years of going through person after person until a good fit appears makes you weak in the knees.

And that's the easy part. Love isn't all hot sex and romantic make out sessions. It's also body odors, inconveniences, annoyances and compromises. And for some people, cheating, kids that aren't yours, divorce, and alimony payments. Not going to name names, but some of our more noble opponauts have partners who are permanently disabled, which should tell you the caliber of human being this place can attract sometimes. You're kidding yourself if you think it's time to kick up your feet and relax after finding that special somebody. Making a relationship work requires a lifetime's worth of effort. It's work. Whether it's blissful or hellish depends on the people, which is why taking the time to find the right person is so very important.

Manuél Ferrari > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 01:45

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Also think of the bright side - less time wasted on a girl that isn't worth it equals more time to work to make money for Porsches or to work on Porsches!

2 girls have broken my heart since I got my Porsche but my car has never let me down. She has been great to me and I'll never let her go :)

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power 04/05/2014 at 01:48

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Well... The fact that you're 3 years younger than me and giving me advice like this, is certainly a first no doubt. It is making me feel a little bit better. I've never tried being spontaneous, I'm actually not sure how to be spontaneous.

themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 01:49

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As a fellow/future ST driver - be fucking HILARIOUS. I have no other advice nor any other outstanding traits other than my ability to spin a quick pun or make a fast joke. And then? I just shoot from the hip. You win some, you lose some, but just be honest about who you are and it'll all happen someday. I was a complete loser in high school, got better during college, and now I can pretty much take who I want........and I REALLY wish I could talk to my 16 year old self and tell him it'll all be okay, but that he also needs to seriously fix a vacuum leak on the old monte carlo before it got worse.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Manuél Ferrari 04/05/2014 at 01:50

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I still can't drive my dad's, nor do I have my own; sadly I'm still losing in that department. Waiting to drive his 911 is like....omfg....waiting for the perfect girl.

That makes sense! How does that make sense?

themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 01:51

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If you pinned all your hopes and dreams on this one date - then yo'ure doing it wrong. Obviously she wasn't doing the same. Be more realistic. Keep telling yourself the first date is little more than window shopping and it'll make more sense. No matter how good it is, it is rare that everything is decided from just the first date alone.

themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles > PS9 04/05/2014 at 01:52

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This. All of this.

PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 01:59

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Don't worry, you'll find a way to be spontaneous!
trust me, no one knows how to be spontaneous. it just hits you.
Also remember, unless you're attempting to get out of the friend zone (WHICH I HAVE DONE ONCE, not bragging, but it is possible!) you've got nothing to lose. Not caring too much about how people perceive you also helps. I'm calling it, for every person who thinks I'm a cool and interesting guy, there's 2 people who think I'm a nutcase. They wouldn't admit it, but it's a fact that is applicable to every man, woman, child, and animal on this planet.

Also, if you were planning on going to a meet, did you wind up going by yourself, or not?

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > PS9 04/05/2014 at 02:00

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Umm yeah I think what you're saying is be glad you're still single; or in some way, you'll be screwed.

And that there are many inconveniences that you must be prepared for.

And unfortunately it can take forever. I don't want to be old and single though. Can one make this process a little faster?

And as somewhat painful as this advice is, somehow it's making me feel somewhat better.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles 04/05/2014 at 02:02

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I've been told by many that I am quite funny. It's almost an inherent trait of mine apparently. Just whatever I say brings out laughter in people...

themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 02:08

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Are they laughing AT you or WITH you? :P

Okay, I'll cut the schtick. You basically just got your first taste of what it means to date. Some people flake, sometimes you read too much into things, etc......You're not into any new territory that everyone else hasn't been in. You learned alesson, and now you grew up a bit. Above all else - stay calm and just be you. Say waht you think, run with a joke that pops into your head, be honest about your interests, and learn how to make good conversation. Bam......that's all I got.......ANd it's working for me, I think. You'll also start to narrow your search as you experience more so you know who you do and don't want. That helps your hit rate a TON. I know within a minute or two of talking if I am very likely to have interest in a girl and if she's interested in me.

tl;dr - you're young, you learned a lesson, now buck up and get back out there!

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power 04/05/2014 at 02:08

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It won't let me comment on that other post. But I did end up going alone and it really did suck.

How the hell did you get out of the friend zone??? That's impossible.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles 04/05/2014 at 02:12

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this is more complicated than I imagined isn't it... :(

Manuél Ferrari > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 02:15

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Don't worry you'll be able to drive it one day. And you'll get a good career later and buy the 991 successor in a cool shade of blue. Think positive and work hard and you can literally make anything happen

themanwithsauce - has as many vehicles as job titles > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 02:17

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This is life. It's only as complicated as you make it.

PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 02:22

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I'll gladly share my story!

So, to get the full extent of the story, you need to go back to September 2013. Back then, my best friend was chasing after this really cute girl who I was pretty close friends with. He was... less than successful. In the same time period, I had mustered the courage to ask this very pretty and talented singer/piano player who I had Biology with to HC (homecoming) (note: a friend of mine asked this girl's best friend out, this will be relevant later). The problem is, the girl I asked to HC, I found her best friend to also be attractive. I confined this in my best friend, who decided to SHOW UP TO HOMECOMING ALONE, told my date what I confined in him, and then proceeded to steal her away for the night. He later on "Befriending" her on accident, so he started dating her best friend (the girl who I had a crush on)

So, what do I do? I turn to the girl who my former best friend was going after. She tells me they went on one date, and that it sucked. We proceeded to joke about my former best friend for a while, and then I jokingly said that if I was him, the date would've gone a lot better. She says "I'm sure it would have *wink*." I took the chance, and asked her if she would like to see for herself, and she said yes! So, it was down to luck, and dickbag best friends!

TL;DR: My BF stole my Homecoming date at Homecoming, and proceeded to make his crush my Girlfriend, since their one and only date sucked!

Ok, story time Is over, and I need my sleep! :) (I've been awake since I took a nap yesterday afternoon, or 29 hours to be exact. I'm running on coffee and Wired 344X)

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Manuél Ferrari 04/05/2014 at 02:24

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how'd you know I wanted a 991 in blue??

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > PetarVN, GLI Guy, now with stupid power 04/05/2014 at 02:27

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Get some sleep! I know I need to. I've got work in 8 hours!

Your stories have inspired me in some way to do something. Not sure yet what that is...

Manuél Ferrari > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 02:41

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I didn't! I just knew certain blues are awesome for 911s

Just took this pic of my 997. It wanted to tell you not to be sad. It's impossible to stay sad after seeing the happy face of a 911!

Axial > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 02:51

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It's simple...

We kill the mechs in Mech Warrior Online to unwind.

It's what I do!

thebigbossyboss > PS9 04/05/2014 at 08:25

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PS9....from the school of hard knocks. Too true too true. Although mind you a single common interest is good for a first date you're never going to know how everyone is right off the bat man!

JGrabowMSt > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 09:24

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No no no. You're looking at this very, very wrong. You need to step back and get a different viewpoint. In all my past relationships, something has fallen incredibly short, usually of no fault to any individual, but a lack of attention let it get worse and worse. It's good that you feel the emotions of it, but you need to tone it down a little. I had a girlfriend that dumped me because I wouldn't go to parties with her, and her friends spent about a month and a half convincing her that she wasn't happy, after being together for nearly two years. You don't need that kind of person in your life. I suggest asking her to go to the meet again, and again, and let her know that you're going, with or without her, and you're going to have fun. But for the love of all things holy, permanently friendzone her. She can't be honest with you, and from what I can tell of what you've posted, it was her first impression.

Don't rush into any relationship, stop looking for one. Relationships aren't pokemon, you can't just run out and catch 'em all. You need to give yourself the time to understand the difference between what you want, and what you're looking for.

The fine lady that I'm planning to ask to be my other half has PTSD like you would never be able to imagine in a million years. There are days when I have no idea what to do, days when there are literally no words, and amazing days we're able to share and remember forever. When PS9 says a " lifetime's worth of effort", he's managed to put that into a few words that almost come close to it, and reading those words makes me feel pretty good about where I am.

I'm not sure what you're looking for. Tail, or a relationship? One is not implied with the other in either situation. If all you want is a fuck buddy, then go find one. If you're actually looking for a relationship, then you need to stop. It's not hiding under a rock in the back yard, you can't just find one. It needs to grow, and will do so on it's own. You need to be patient and careful, and when the time is right, you'll know when it's happening.

I'm giving you some homework right now. Treat this like the last class before you get your degree. You can treat it like a joke, or take it seriously. Just know that sometimes it can make or break a career that your professor can get you started in. Do some soul searching. Decide what you're looking for, and what you want. Don't treat your wants as needs. Don't settle for anything less than the best for yourself. Learn to compromise around those things, and when (and when not) to put your foot down.

In the meantime, start by carving some corners in your ST. Go somewhere you've never been before this weekend. It might help change your perspective a little.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Manuél Ferrari 04/05/2014 at 10:16

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She's a beaut! Still wishing I had one of my own...

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > JGrabowMSt 04/05/2014 at 10:39

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I'm not sure what "Tail" is? How do I not find one? Does it just spontaneously pop out of nowhere and just happen? I guess I've been being stupid for the last two years then. GREAT, I've wasted two years of my life being stupid... I just don't like being alone.

How does one do "some soul searching"? Where do I even start? I'm surprised I'm gonna say this, but I'm not sure how driving is gonna change a thing? :(

Conan > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 11:42

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Be thankful. You could end up married to the wrong one in college. I did. Don't stress and keep looking. It's like cars. If you take time and look harder you can end up with what you actually want.

Manuél Ferrari > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 12:43

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don't worry you will!

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Manuél Ferrari 04/05/2014 at 12:53

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Can I have one of these?

Manuél Ferrari > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 13:14

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Yes! And awesome post on them

Any RWD + MT 964 is the BEST 911 to buy right now. Best price and best chance of good appreciation relative to the purchase price

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > Manuél Ferrari 04/05/2014 at 13:26

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Thanks! I've been working on that post all week, didn't have the time to finish it until now.

If only I had the money! :(

Can I setup a donation fund?

"Help K-Roll Get His First 911"

Manuél Ferrari > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 13:34

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Haha if that was allowed then we'd all setup funds for cars!

JGrabowMSt > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 13:40

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Soul Searching

This is something that you need to always do for yourself. If you're entering college and have never done this before, it's time to start now. Better late than never.

Know yourself, then you can get to know someone else on the same level you want to. If you can't be happy alone, being in a relationship isn't going to change how you feel. Relationships are best when you have time for them. College is a great time to learn about yourself, but do so slowly and carefully. Too many people really don't understand that, unfortunately some of my previous relationships fell victim to that confusion.

You need to have time to relax. I know for myself, I go for a long bike ride or a nice long drive, and it clears my head. I can't concentrate on the road if my head is somewhere else. It gives my brain a chance to relax, and as I relax, I can think more clearly about what's going on. It's a long, long road to go down in order to learn that.

You start today, you start now. You start with yourself. It will change everything.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > JGrabowMSt 04/05/2014 at 13:52

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I suppose I could go for a nice drive after work tonight, it's a rather sunny day outside. What will change? Is this like when people say to "find yourself"? Because I've tried that, and I didn't know what I was looking for...

It's not that I'm unwilling to do this, I'm just not sure how or what I'm suppose to do to do this other than relax.. This all seems hard.

JGrabowMSt > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 14:11

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It will be hard. If it was easy, no one would have to go through this. It's the same thing as finding yourself.

The joy about doing this is that you don't have to know what you're looking for. You'll know what it is when you find it.

What general area do you live in? I'm in Northern NJ.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > JGrabowMSt 04/05/2014 at 16:30

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I'm in SE Michigan. What if I'm wrong again about what I find? How will I feel when I know or find whatever it is I'm looking for?

JGrabowMSt > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 17:11

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thats purely up to you...no one but yourself can make any of those decisions or assumptions. You may not like what you find, you may enjoy it, but either way, it's up to you. If you werent so far away, I would say join a lot of us to CT tomorrow morning.

Youve got many years ahead of you, so what happens to you now will be just a blip in the grand scheme of things when you become established and happy. Being young, and still learning, everything is normal. You're beginning to see what your direction is in life, and its going to seemingly disturb everything you're used to as you interact with people.

I had a few moments in my life that changed everything I thought I knew about myself, and Im in a vastly different position because of that. Thats a different story for a different day. I do remember being in your shoes, it wasnt long ago. I just turned 23 last week. I had a lot of great opportunities in the past few years, and for many of those, I was the youngest participant, employee, or in one case, engineer.

Youre plenty capable of having the same opportunities, and you can find yorself. You just have to give it time, and give yourself time. Nothing happens in an instant, so youre on the right track. Just make sure you enjoy the ride, thats more than half the point.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > JGrabowMSt 04/05/2014 at 17:23

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I think I get it now! I got another question, Do you think that maybe there was some misunderstanding? Maybe I should try it again? See if I can get her to go with me again?

JGrabowMSt > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/05/2014 at 19:49

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Invite her to join you to another meet, but strictly friendzone her until she can prove that she is both respectful and honest.

Whatever you do, you are not desperate, you are deserving and you are the best of the best. Let the journey of life be enjoyable. Take the drive, maybe invite her on one. Thats how I got to know my ladyfriend better. Sometimes the radio isnt enough, then you learn to talk.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > JGrabowMSt 04/06/2014 at 12:52

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Hmm, makes sense to me. I wonder if she friendzoned me already or even before we "planned" to do this? Whatever the case, I'm not going to her, I'm waiting until she comes to me. I cannot thank you enough for all the advice you've given me, and unfortunately I cannot thank you in person(maybe one day) but I can at least find a picture of a favorite car of yours if you like. :)

JGrabowMSt > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/06/2014 at 21:44

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What new thing did you do this weekend?

I went on quite the adventure through two states with two porsches and a mercedes, and spent over two hours on the side of a highway. It was good, and I would do it again in a heartbeat.

Look for a car called the Rossion Q1. Not my favorite, but it came up today. As far as a favorite, look for a 1968 Ford Fairlane, 2 door sedan body, 427 cobra jet. Thats a real challenge.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > JGrabowMSt 04/06/2014 at 22:07

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You weren't with Aaron Brown by chance, were you?

Sadly I couldn't find the time to anything to do this weekend, work got in the way. Though a weekend road trip would be nice if I could find the time. The other thing is that I'm going to college in the same city I've lived my entire life in, so if any things been done here, I've already done it. I did stare out the window of my work and watch 911s, Mustangs and a gallardo pass by.

I can't really think of something I haven't done yet...

Consider those pics to be found eventually! :)

JGrabowMSt > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/06/2014 at 23:15

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I was with Aaron Brown. Completely worth it.

I did more or less the same thing. I chose to be a commuter student, so I see the same old things over and over. Now that I'm at a different school it's nice, but not that big a thing, because campus isn't close enough to town for walking in to be a quick and fun thing.

Sometimes you can find something new just by going a couple towns over. That's essentially what got me where I am today. I dated a girl from a couple towns over, she showed me some cool things, and it's exploded from there. Things didn't end well, but I'm perfectly happy where I am and where things pushed me.

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > JGrabowMSt 04/06/2014 at 23:38

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That's good to here that all things worked out for you. :)

Actually, there are a few things in other cities close by I've been wanting to do but could never find time for. The other thing that bummed me out this weekend was because if work, I missed the first C&C of the year, and it would've been my first C&C and cars how that isn't the auto show ever. Now I've gotta wait a month for the next one.

There is a car show at a college an hour away that I plan to go to in two weeks so that should be something worth looking forward to. I guess that's a start!

K-Roll-PorscheTamer > JGrabowMSt 04/07/2014 at 11:27

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I think I found the Cars!

Rossion Q1

'68 Fairlane

427 Cobra Jet

If any of these are wrong I'll do my best to go back out there and find them again!

Stef Schrader > K-Roll-PorscheTamer 04/10/2014 at 19:39

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Disregard females, acquire 911s.